Plenty of women usually complain about how they cannot seem to find a great man even if there are four billion of them around.
So, what does it actually mean? That a whopping majority of men no nothing about seducing women. But that can change with my help – I know it sounds like a BIG claim. But then, I am a woman, and I can tell you how to seduce a girl.
And you need not even be near her for turning her on. Instead, I am here to teach you the seduction techniques over text. Yep, these are messages that are BIG turn-ons for most women. Stay tuned!
How To Seduce A Girl Over Text? 5 Golden Rules!
So, how do you seduce a girl over texts? It’s simple, really – there are five golden rules to seducing a woman over texts, and I have broken them down into simple points to help you out.
So, without wasting any more time, let’s check out the five golden rules to keep in mind while seducing a woman over texts.
1. Make Every Single Text Message Count:
Now, most men get this one very wrong. Men end up texting women, trying to find out more about them. It’s more like a medium where he can get to know her. But then that ends up giving birth to loads of ‘friendly’ conversations.
So, these conversations are slated to go absolutely nowhere. Moreover, these conversations are not even that fun. In fact, if you don’t send her emotionally stimulating messages, she is going to get very bored of you really fast.
As a result, if you are about to send her a text, find out WHY you are doing so. If you are texting her with no purpose, then don’t text. You should only text her if you want to make a great first impression, checking in on her for maintaining the emotional momentum, and for dates.
Once the introductory stage ends, you have to go back and forth between checking in on her and dates. If you text her too much, then you will bore her. Or, you might just appear to be overly available and desperate. So, the point is to make every text count.
2. Create Lots Of Sexual Tension:
If you want to seduce your crush over texts, you will have to create some sexual tension. If you fail to do that, then you should just accept your permanent position in the friendzone. See, if she doesn’t think of you as hot then you will become and stay ‘friends.’ Now, that’s a fact, believe it or not.
So, what can you text her to build some tension? Basically, anything that can enhance any existing sexual connection. Now, that will never include any pick-up line. Instead, focus on suggestive messages that will trigger her imagination.
Here are some examples:
- Hnnngg. Just ate an orgasmic burger!
- One sex. Uugggh, meant, one sec. It’s like autocorrect can read my mind.
- Um, are you flirting with me?
- You are so falling for me.
- Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
So, do you understand what all these texts have in common? They all put the idea of romance and sex in your mind.
That is a key to seducing any woman over texts.
3. Be Authentic With Your Praises:
Another massive problem that keeps most men from successfully seducing women over texts is being just too nice. The average man is so desperate for her attention that he becomes a golden retriever in need of attention.
Yeah, most women love golden retrievers. But that doesn’t mean they want to have sex with them. So, if you want to make a great impression on her with your messages, then you can’t send her texts that will turn you into a puppy.
In that case, what do you think is a good approach? Be authentic with your praises, compliments, and affection. This means you can compliment her only when she does something impressive. For example, just because she goes out running three times a week, you cannot shower her with compliments. That’s not weird.
Here are some texts!
- You have some pretty solid guts, considering you are teasing me like that, woman. I love it.
- Bruhhh. Here’s my number – you earned it!
- Hahahaha, if you keep making me laugh like this, then I won’t be able to stop myself from falling for you.
4. Be A Challenge:
Here is a seduction tip that might actually change everything for you!
Understand this carefully: people actually value what they earn. So, if she does have to work some more to get your compliments, your interest, and your attention, then she will like you 100 times more!
And I can guarantee that!
Now, this does not mean you have to play complex mind games. If you have your own life, your hobbies, and your friends, then you won’t care too much about a random girl you just met.
But if you don’t have a full life that keeps you away from your phone, then just put it away now and then, especially when she is texting you back.
5. Be Interested:
Now, it might not sound very sexy, but it is important to show interest when you are trying to seduce a woman. Of course, you cannot go too deep or too far here. I mean, you don’t have to ask her about her childhood dreams or what motivates her every morning. You can save these questions for the fourth or fifth date.
While texting initially, do ask about things that matter to you genuinely, and not because it brings you both mutuality. That is just deep soup!
Moreover, when you express genuine curiosity, it automatically builds trust. Nearly no woman will go out with a hot guy she does not feel comfortable with. However, make sure that you don’t become too serious and end up in deep conversations since it can get awkward. So, just keep it light and fun.
And It’s A Wrap!
And it’s a wrap on how to seduce a girl over texts! Tell us what are your thoughts on these seduction techniques. It has always worked on me – as in for the men who have done it to me and all the women I know. Let us know whether it works for you or not!
Barsha Bhattacharya is a senior content writing executive. As a marketing enthusiast and professional for the past 4 years, writing is new to Barsha. And she is loving every bit of it. Her niches are marketing, lifestyle, wellness, travel and entertainment. Apart from writing, Barsha loves to travel, binge-watch, research conspiracy theories, Instagram and overthink.