Whether you are hanging out every other day after work or just plain FaceTiming every other night before going to sleep or you are still in those early exchanges, you might find yourself struggling at some point, trying to find more things to discuss and talk about with your crush or soulmate.
Don’t you worry, it is perfectly normal? When you are with your soulmate for a very long time, you might feel like you are already aware of everything about them.
Plus, conversations can easily get very repetitive. How was your day? What did you have for lunch? What are you watching on Netflix now?
Even if you are still at that getting-to-one-another phase, sometimes conversations can easily run dry. Plus, you can also get frustrated and even blank trying to come up with topics for conversations.
The problem is not that you have managed to run out of topics to discuss – you just need a few conversation starters to help you out!
And that is precisely why we are here to make things easy for you! So, without wasting time, let’s get started!
But Before That, Remember That Awkwardness And Silence Aren’t Bad Things:
Firstly, here is something you are required to remember. Silence is not really a bad thing. Don’t feel embarrassed, or just shuffle your toes when you guys are not really talking. Similarly, when the texting starts to get dry, don’t panic. Just take a few deep breaths and simply relax.
There are days when silence can turn out to be something perfect, meant to help out two parties in love. After all, silence can actually be a great thing to make you both fall for each other. Plus, you don’t really need a whole barrage of words to feel comfortable.
Initially, it might be a little difficult to feel uncomfortable when there is silence because of the constant need to prove that you are a great company.
The primary awkwardness can also be highlighted because of the existing sexual tension. However, over a period of time, you will start learning how to be relaxed around one another.
Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend When You Feel Like You’ve Covered It All!
Now that we have established how both silence and awkwardness aren’t really bad things, let’s get to the pain point at hand – the things to talk about with your boyfriend when you feel like you have covered it all.
So, here we are with tons of conversation starters, questions, and topics to talk about with your boyfriend, even when you feel like you have covered it all!
Questions That Spark Fun Conversations:
Here are our favorite questions to spark up conversations:
- “What’s the spiciest thing you’ve ever eaten?”
- “What’s your favorite cheesy pickup line?”
- “If you were trapped on an island and you could only bring three things with you, what would you take?”
- “What’s your dream job?”
- “If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?”
- “If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would buy?”
- “Who would play you in a movie about your life, and what would the movie be called?”
- “If you could have dinner with someone, living or dead, who would you invite and why?”
- “If you could only study one subject for the rest of your life, what would it be?”
- “Who is your favorite musician and/or band of all time?”
- “What’s your idea of a perfect day?”
- “If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?”
- “What’s the best meal you’ve ever had?”
Questions And Topics To Give Your Conversations More Depth:
Here are our favorite questions to add more depth to your conversations:
- “When do you feel most confident?”
- “Tell me about a time you did something that was outside of your comfort zone.”
- “What do you want people to remember you for when you’re gone?”
- “What’s one thing about you that most people don’t know but you wish they did?”
- “If you were given one week to live, what would you do?”
- “What’s something about yourself that you want to work on?”
- “If you could re-do a decision in your life, what decision would it be and why?”
- “What is one thing you wish you were taught that you had to learn the hard way?”
- “How would you describe yourself in three words?”
- “Have you ever experienced a friendship breakup?”
- “How do you usually react to conflict?”
- “What’s your favorite childhood memory?”
- “What is your love language?”
Relationship-Based Questions And Conversation Topics:
Lets see our favorite relationship-based questions and conversation topics:
- “What is your best trait in a relationship?”
- “Do you see yourself settling down one day?”
- “What did you learn about relationships from your parents?”
- “Tell me about a couple you know who has what you consider to be the healthiest relationship.”
- “What is one deal breaker for you in a relationship?”
- “Have you ever been cheated on?”
- “How do you know when you’re in love?”
- “What have you learned from past relationships?”
- “At what point did you realize you were in love with me?”
- “What is your favorite memory of us?”
- “What can I do to make you feel more loved in our relationship?”
- “Have you ever thought about the names of your future kids? If so, what would you name them?”
- “What is your favorite thing about us as a couple?”
And It’s A Wrap!
And it’s a wrap on the things to talk about with your boyfriend! What do you think, guys? Are these topics great for keeping up with conversation? Or do you have something more to add to the mix? Feel free to share your thoughts on the topic in the comments below!
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