“Karmic relationships burn hot and seem almost intoxicating at times, but the entire point of these types of relationships is to come into our lives, change us – and then leave.”
At the beginning of a new relationship, have you ever wondered if this relationship was meant to be or not? I am not saying it in a soulmate kind of a situation, but a relationship is more than just two people falling in love, maybe something Karmic in nature is happening.
Now you might be asking what a karmic relationship is, well, that is exactly what this article is all about. So if you wanna find out what is a karmic relationship, then you need to go through this article and scroll down till the very end.
Karmic Relationship: How Do They Manifest?
“Karmic relationships are all about completing interactions with people that were cut short in previous lifetimes“
Even if you are in a karmic relationship, you won’t be able to tell until and unless you are deep in it. Marriage Counselor Andrew Aaron, LICSW, said, “It grips both partners tightly, and despite the damage done to both, they don’t seem to be able to let go of each other, even though everybody around them is telling them to end it.” The relationship will feel like the two of you are meant to be together, it is more than any other romantic relationship. The need to be with each other, even if you two are tearing each other apart, is insane for onlookers.
“A karmic relationship is a relationship that is not meant to last, but which will help us achieve a new level of wisdom and maturity.”
Signs Of A Karmic Relationship
It can very difficult to identify a karmic relationship, even if you are in one. But still, there are a few tell tale signs of recognizing a karmic relationship that you should know about.
1. Looks Like A Codependent Relationship
People in a karmic relationship tend to be highly codependent on each other. If you are in one, then it would be like you don’t have any other option other than to give you all to him.
You feel like you have an addiction to this person that you won’t be able to break free from. Whenever you wanna feel like leaving, a siren rings in your head, and that is when you panic and not be able to do anything about it.
2. The Connection Is Instant
“Maybe it’s not about the length of time you’ve known someone; maybe it’s about instant recognition on an unconscious level. Our souls know each other.”
The most obvious signs of the start of a karmic relationship are that you will feel that you have known this person for a long time, and that will pull you into the relationship even further.
3. The Drama Doesn’t Seem To End
By now, you should be well aware that these karmic relationships are not stable at all by any means. They are very tumultuous in every sense of the word.
Author Shannon Kaiser said,
“If drama is the foundation for your love affair, chances are you’re in a karmic relationship.” The relationship hence became highly toxic and needs to be healed immediately, or it must come to an end.”
4. A Roller Coaster Of Emotions
“They say you die twice. One time when you stop breathing and a second time, a bit later on, when somebody says your name for the last time.”
Once you are in a karmic relationship, then the one thing that I can guarantee you will experience is a roller coaster of emotions. One time you are happy, and the other time, you are just crying and screaming. And that doesn’t sound like a happy relationship.
Every step of the way, whenever you have the slightest disagreement, it will break out into a full blown argument and fight between the two of you.
5. Fearful Of How It Might End
“A karmic relationship can be very painful, and for that reason, it teaches you many important life lessons that will help you later down the road so that you don’t repeat the same mistakes again.”
You will find security and peace in a relationship that is karmic in nature. The constant fear of the relationship ending will cripple you from the inside. But since the relationship is like an addiction for you, that’s why you don’t understand, but you will be glad that the relationship finally ended.
6. One-Sided Relationship
“I choose to love you in silence because, in silence, I feel no rejection.”
Most often, karmic relationships feel like a one-sided relationship, and that too a toxic one. In a relationship like there is always a dominant one and a submissive one. The dominant is selfish and self-serving, and the submissive one is all about pleasing that person to the best of their capabilities.
7. They’re Unpleasant To Be Around
Has this ever happened to you when you are with your partner, but you are feeling something is not quite right?
It is hard to say why, but you don’t feel at home when you are around them, your guards are always up, and you are never truly comfortable when you are around them.
Although after everything, you wouldn’t wanna leave them as well, as you are addicted to them and their presence in your life.
8. They’re Addicting
Once you are in a karmic relationship, it will consume all of you. It doesn’t matter if you have tension between the two of you or if things are as normal as they can be. But you won’t be able to do anything else other than think of the relationship 24×7.
9. They Bring Out The Worst In You
After all the things already happening in a relationship as such, how can it be good for you? Relationships like these always tend to bring out the worst side of you. But it’s not your fault, even the most level-headed person can feel like this.
According to relationship counselor Margaret Paul,
“There are numerous unresolved issues from past lives. When people open to learning rather than try to control each other, then much healing can occur. Unless people know how to learn from unresolved issues in the past, they can create huge problems in the relationships.”
10. It Will Never Last
“Once all the Karma between you two is burned away, you both can be free from the relationship.”
You can try as much as you can to hold on to it, but in the end, it will end. Karmic relationships are very unhealthy but very addicting.
So you might try to hold on to it, but you will feel much better. Now if you see the distance between the two of you is gradually growing, then let it be, don’t hold to it.
If you have a karmic relationship or even a connection with someone, it is not gonna end up being the best thing for you.
But if you even suspect that you are in a karmic relationship, then go through these signs and get out of it before it blows up in your face.
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Barsha Bhattacharya is a senior content writing executive. As a marketing enthusiast and professional for the past 4 years, writing is new to Barsha. And she is loving every bit of it. Her niches are marketing, lifestyle, wellness, travel and entertainment. Apart from writing, Barsha loves to travel, binge-watch, research conspiracy theories, Instagram and overthink.