Is it actually possible to attract anything in your life just with the help of positive thinking? Well, it is true. Being a skeptical person myself, I was also doubtful whether the Law Of Attraction was going to work or not.
But in the end, I have come to the conclusion that manifestation actually works. And it could be anything. But if you are someone who has been unlucky in matters of love and romance, then it is time to change that. And I am going to help you with this.
We humans are filled with convoluted emotional and mental energy, and it is part of our basic nature. So, if you have heard that someone has manifested their romantic partner, or a fling, or their dream job, you have heard it right.
You must be getting impatient by now. Well, without any further delay, let’s get you through the process of manifesting your true love into your life.
What is Manifestation?
Manifestation is the process of internal transformation along with external actualization. In simple words, it is bringing something into your life with the help of positive thinking, belief, and attraction.
This means you have to believe that if you think about it, it will happen. It is going to come true. But this is not just about wishful thinking. You have to align your emotions, thoughts, and energy with your desires.
Is It Possible to Manifest One Specific Person in Your Life?
If you want a particular person in your life or want to manifest that specific person, there are a lot of questions that come with it. But is it possible? Does it actually align with the natural law of the universe along with the free will of others? Check out below to find out.
Align With the Universe
While discussing manifesting a particular person, you have to understand that the process should go with the natural flow of the universe and should do good to all the individuals involved.
This means that when you focus your energies and intentions on one specific individual, your manifestation should not try to bend their will to match yours or disrupt their life in any way.
Instead, it should always be about aligning yourself with all the qualities you are looking for in that person or in the relationship you are looking for.
Free Will
One of the most important aspects of manifesting a specific person is that you have to respect their free will. Every person in this universe has a path set for themselves and has their own karmic journey.
However, when you are manifesting a certain person, try to shift the focus slightly. Try to concentrate on manifesting the experiences and the feelings that you associate with that person rather than compelling them to enter your life.
For example, if you like the person for their understanding of the way they love, then focus on manifesting those qualities. This way, you are open to the guidance and wisdom of the universe.
This is going to get that particular person closer to you or attract someone with all those qualities that you are looking for. Even when you are not executing someone else, you might land with someone even better and be aligned with your true happiness.
How to Manifest Someone: Step-by-step Guide
Ready to welcome that special person into your life? Then what are you waiting for? Read along.
Clarify Your Intentions
There is a popular method known as “feeling is healing.” This method says that when u change how you feel, your behavior changes automatically, and in turn, your life changes as well. When you think clearly, you can take actions that align with your manifestations.
Dive deep into your mind, and ask yourself what you want to manifest and why you want it. Also, try to focus on the qualities of the person that you like them for. With clear intentions, you will find it easy to concentrate and focus on your intentions.
Cultivate Core Values and Self-awareness
It is important to know yourself better. If you do not know what you want or what you like, it is not possible for your partner to know those as well. Knowing yourself and loving yourself is the first step that you have to take.
Knowing the unique core values is going to guide your actions and it is going to make sure that you are aligned with the manifestations that you want to call in. Every person wants to attract someone who has the same values and vision towards life.
Make a List
There are various kinds of lists that can help you manifest someone into your life. One of the best practices is to pen down what you are looking for in a partner. Do not just focus on the external part, but the internal characteristics as well. But focus mostly on the feeling.
According to the founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan, “You want to start connecting to that feeling so it’s not so foreign when you experience it…because it may not always look like what you’re intellectually thinking.”
You can also write about the ideal day you want to spend with them or the ideal life you envision with them. Write in a way that it is happening right now.
Use the 3-6-9 Method or Journal
If you find it difficult to make a list and put things together, then try to write things down in a different way. Writing it down is an effective way of getting out of your mind and diving deep into your subconscious.
This is also going to help you get the negative thoughts out of your mind. To follow a more structured pattern, you can also try the 3-6-9 method. In simple terms, you have to write down what you want or what you would like to manifest three times in the morning, six times in the day, and nine times in the evening.
Writing what you want to manifest repetitively is going to help you rewire neural pathways and strengthen positive beliefs and thought patterns. Make sure that when you are writing, you write it in the present tense.
This is going to reaffirm that your manifestation is happening or will happen. This is not just about writing; it is about speaking as well. Speak as if you have already found that person, and that person is already in your life.
Try Visualizing
Visualizing is a lot like writing that list or writing your journal. You have to visualize your life with that special person as if they are already with you at the present time. According to Chan, “Get yourself in a meditative state, and begin to associate with it by feeling into the details with your partner.”
When you start to visualize that whatever you are manifesting is coming to your life, the neurons in the brain interpret this type of image as if it is actually happening in real life. Thus, you start to give you a frequency, which is a vibrational match for what you are calling in.
Try Creating a Vision Board
A vision board is kind of a digital or physical representation of what you want to manifest in your life. Look for images that represent what you are calling in and then pin them. You can also make a folder on your computer or phone if you are not very artistic.
However, if you have decided to go with the board, try to use the Feng sui bagua map as your reference. The upper right corner is actually the energy center for your relationships. After getting it done, put it somewhere where you will get to see it, and it will remind you of your desires and goals.
Create a Specific Scene and Loop It
I might be sounding a bit repetitive, but trust me when I say it, imagination is the key. Try to think of a situation with the person whom you are manifesting and play it in the loop in your mind. Make sure it implies that you two are together and are happy.
For instance, it could be something like you and your partner are taking a stroll across the beach, or laying in bed together, or you two are married. And think of a short dialogue that you project that the situation is happy and is actually happening.
For instance, you can think that you are cooking in the kitchen with your partner and imagine your partner surprising you with your anniversary present, and you two wish each other your wedding anniversary.
Live in the End
Well, all you need to do is successfully implant the desires in your subconscious mind. This is all you have to do. Believe that your subconscious is going to get you what you are manifesting, and do your regular chores.
The universe, along with your subconscious mind, is going to make a bridge of incidents, and it is ultimately going to take you to your desired outcome or what you have imagined.
Have Faith
In the end, it all comes down to faith. Make sure that you stay faithful to the desired outcomes, and it will be yours. Trust me. This is all you need to do. And this is going to be a healthy mental diet as well because you will not let any negative thoughts in.
When your subconscious gets aligned with your imagination, it is done. It is true, like the sun and moon. The desired act is going to play out in the external reality as well. Just have faith and be persistent, and ignore the current situation.
It might be telling you something else or portraying a different scenario. But ignore it and have a little faith. Circumstances and events do not matter, they keep changing. Even if you are manifesting a specific person, try these instructions. The results will surprise you.
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