Everything Has Changed: New Year, New Me

A new year is a sign of a new beginning and the start of something new and letting go of the mistakes and problems that you might have. It is often practiced that at the beginning of a new year, people tend to change certain things about themselves. 

It is a way of improving their personality and behavior. That is what people do when they make new year’s resolutions, make a promise to themselves that they might wanna change in the new year. 

Not only that you can change your personality but you might see yourself changing and developing feelings for someone you least expected. Can this year be the year that you meet someone new and the feeling of hope, elation, and inspiration to be someone better? 

Everything Has Changed: New Year; New Me

The feeling of meeting someone new and believing that things are changing with you after you met that person. This feeling of meeting someone new and feeling something changed within yourself is truly special and makes you feel fulfilled and content. 

Taylor Swift everything has changed, is exactly what the song feels like and makes us feel about.  If you don’t know this beautiful Taylor Swift song, then here is the full song. 

It is possible that as the year starts, you meet that person, and it seems like you have known that person your whole life. So upon meeting that person what will you do, let them go? 

You should never let that person step out of your life, without even taking a proper chance at a possible relationship. But what can you even do to attract the attention of ‘The 1.’ 

1. Have A Clear Goal

Well, it is quite possible that at a new years party, you suddenly gaze upon that person and the only thing you can say is ‘Gorgeous.’ 

As your new year’s resolution you are dead set on approaching them, your ‘New Romantics.’ So now that you are set on your ‘target’ this new year is going to be fun.  

2. Do Something About It

Now that your target is set, now it’s up to you to do something about it. The first tithing you might wanna know is whether they are single or taken, if single, that is when he becomes ‘Mr. Perfectly Fine.’ 

Go up to him and start talking to him, and fingers crossed, ‘Sparks Fly,’ and all you could say was, ‘Sweet Nothing.’ But don’t you think of him as ‘The 1’ only on day one, give it a bit of time to properly understand. 

3. Don’t Leave It Halfway

Once the day is over, it is possible that the two of you drift, but are you really going to leave it be and only think what ‘Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve,’ I don’t think so. Go after him, don’t just let him go.

‘Call it what you want,’ but if you have a chance at love, then don’t just ignore it, so again connect with him and it is possible that by now ‘I think he knows,’ but that doesn’t matter if you want something you should go get it. 

4. ‘You Are In Love’

Once you spend time with him, you can see that he is the ‘King of my heart,’ and you start to feel like he’s ‘The 1’ for you. 

And at the same time, it is important for you to know if he’s thinking of you or not, but you know for sure, and you know ‘I bet you think about me,’ because the both of you are in a ‘lavender haze.’

5. ‘The Moment I Knew’

Your ‘Love Story,’ with your man can be quite ‘delicate’ as it is only the beginning, but you are already thinking about ‘Forever & Always.’ But this was quite obvious from the moment you laid eyes on him, that is when ‘Everything has changed.’

New Year, New Me: Resolutions From Reddit!

Thanks to r/datingoverthirty on Reddit, we have managed to get hold of the best dating New Year resolutions from Reddit. Scroll down to read more!

1. “Texting more and trying to have a phone call first, so that I ultimately go on fewer dates that I am more excited about. Limiting swiping and messaging to 15 minutes every day right before I go to the gym.” – localminima773

2. “Love this post! I have a few, and I am starting from scratch on the dating front, so perfect timing. Initiating dates if I want to see someone more often. Communicating my goals for a relationship upfront. I just wasted two months recently and a lot of heartache. Incorporating checks in’s with myself and the other as things progress.” – meltink745

3. “I have made tremendous improvements over the past year and I’d like to keep that momentum going by reflecting on this past year of dating. Dip out sooner when I know something isn’t right. Find a balance of remaining curious while meeting people where they’re at. Don’t just accept people as they are but start digging into why they are the way they are.” – icanseeyourbones

4. “I don’t like the idea of resolutions, but I am doing a speed dating event for the first time on January 7. Annoyingly, it was supposed to be this last Sat but they had to cancel it because too many people asked to reschedule. Great omen…” – JesusChristSupers1ar

5. “Dating enough to not get as nervous as before. Fewer hookups, fewer endless crushes, more slow burn dates. Threesomes, exploration, and finding more open-minded people in the kink and queer community.” – roundup77

6. “I actually rarely swipe right and I don’t plan to change that. People with no bio and two photos, or only linked IG account either don’t know what they want or they don’t care that much. I want someone who put at least some effort into their profile. Regarding phone calls, yeah, that’s something I need to start doing instead of going on a date directly.” – realfan56

‘Our Song’: Wrapping Up!

With the new year, it is always a great way to let your old self and old relations go. With the new year rolling in it’s time to look for more meaningful and beautiful relationships. 

The story of you and me also started with the new year as everything has changed the day I saw you. Taylor Swift captured the innocence of love at first sight beautifully with this perfect song and this can go with any of your love stories.

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