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The Art Of Pillow Humping: How To Hump A Pillow & The Most Effective Ways To Do It!

The Art Of Pillow Humping: How To Hump A Pillow & The Most Effective Ways To Do It!

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Are you bored with the same old masturbation sessions? Are you not feeling the usual rush or horniness anymore? Why not try out something a bit naughtier? 

Have you ever tried humping your soft fluffy pillows? I know it won’t feel like the actual thing, the real “Thing.” But it will spice up your sexual desires when you are all alone.  

Why not whip that pillow out, hump your brains out! Don’t be shy; it is for both guys and girls. You have sexual desires, too, so why not try it out? Be responsible for your orgasms!

Pillow Humping For Beginners! Humping 101

I know what you might be thinking, Pillow Humping? Really? I’m not that desperate! But trust me, try it once, and then get back to me. And once you do it right, it won’t seem so juvenile and silly at all. 😉

Girls, you can vouch for me! When we were going through puberty, often lying on the bed at night, we felt that tingling feeling down there. 

The feeling of horniness just kicked in, and we didn’t have any vibrators with us, so the only alternative was either fingers or pillows. Either worked great and felt like unimaginable pleasure. 

The start of every pillow-humping story is the same for all. First, you start with placing a soft fluffy pillow between your legs and roll around and hump on it. Then once find the feeling great, pillow humping becomes a daily habit. You will hump that poor pillow like a fucking blowup sex doll. 

What is Pillow Humping?

What is Pillow Humping

Are you a first-time humper? Don’t know what the heck is Pillow Humping? Let me enlighten you and open a world of humping techniques to you. 

Pillow humping is technically a masturbation technique that mostly involves a woman sitting on top of a pillow and grinding or humping on it. She humps on it till she gets an orgasm. Pillow humping is like dry humping except for that other person. 

Don’t get me wrong! Pillow humping is not only for girls; guys can enjoy it equally! Guys hitting puberty tried pillow humping by folding the pillow into a fold, a perfect soft fluffy hole! To insert their penis into… Sounds familiar!

But Why Do Poeple Pillow Hump Anyway?

It might sound strange but then humping inanimate objects generally begins during childhood. Parents and psychologists even say that several children might begin to display sexual behavior really early. 

But Why Do Poeple Pillow Hump Anyway

Obviosuly this can even manifest via stimulated intercourse such as pillow or dry humping. Bascially grinding or dry humping against different household objects simply because these objects are available – yes, it is not really snapshot you need for your photo album. 

This appears to be pretty common for children in the age group of 9 to 12. However, the ages of children might vary – it depends on when the child is discovering their sexuality, their body, their needs. 

You would be surprised to find out how so many people actually carry such habits well into their adulthood. 

The Different Methods Of Pillow Humping – Exclusively For Women!

Nope, sex toys aren’t really a necessity. If you happen to be living with your parents or just way too shy about visiting any sex shop then pillows happen to be a crazy alternative. Naturally, this makes you curious about the basic thing here – how to pillow hump and orgasm? 

The Different Methods Of Pillow Humping - Exclusively For Women

Here are our favorite tips as well as tricks on making yourself cum with your favorite pillow! 

1. Triple Stack:

You just have to stack 3 pillows on top of each other and subsequently mount them – with the help of a slow, rocking motion, you just have to grind back & forth till you are able to find a good rhythm that will get your engine running. 

2. The Stuffed Animal:

Sorry, champ, but have you ever wondered why so many of us still have a huge soft toy sleeping beside us every night? You might find it disturbing, but the truth is these people might just be humping stuffed animals. 

3. The Bed’s Corner:

Several women enjoy placing their pillows on the bed’s corner to pillow hump. This way, it is easier to obtain friction from the edge of the mattress, allowing women to hump or grind while crouching or even standing. 

4. Classic Pillow Humping:

You just have to keep the pillow on the bed’s center, right below your pelvic area, and begin grinding with those beautiful legs of yours – spread those legs as much as you want. You can take this a notch higher by folding the pillow as well. That way, friction from the folded pillow becomes easier to obtain.

How To Prepare For Engaging In Pillow Humping?

How To Prepare For Engaging In Pillow Humping

If you want to make your first experience with pillow humping to be memorable, then you need to prepare yourself accordingly.

Here’s some prep work that you can do to make your first time work out smoothly. 

1. Set The Mood:

Think about all the things that turn you on, and try creating an intimate vibe in your bedroom. Simply light your candles, get hold of certain essential oils, play some calm music, and drink some alcohol to get rid of anything shyness that might stop you. 

Moreover, get comfy in your own bed and ensure that everything goes smoothly. Also, focus on playing with yourself and forgetting about the rest, 

2. Lock Your Door:

If you don’t live alone and you have parents or roommates, then it is always advisable to keep your doors locked. Moreover, it is also crucial to make sure that nobody enters your bedroom and sees your pillow humping. Also, it is better to avoid any such situation from happening – it will be damn embarrassing.

3. Wear Comfy Panties:

You can opt for any underwear that makes you feel comfy and sexy. So, just ensure that it is better to opt for panties that are made from a natural or smooth fabric since they prevent irritation and rubbing. Also, it is better to go for underwear that has no seams in their intimate areas. 

4. Don’t Be Afraid Of Staying Silent:

While you are humping pillows, you might feel shy – keep your inhibitions and don’t worry! It’s normal to moan –  after all, it will be a pleasurable experience for you without a doubt.

Moreover, moaning as well as screaming will make the whole sexual act feel so much real. If there’s anyone in your house, just turn on the music so that nobody will hear you orgasming.

Best Pillow-humping Positions

Well, the position that gets you most aroused or turns you on the most is the best pillow-humping position.

Here are some of the best pillow-humping positions.

Missionary

This position is one of the classics for having sex and pillow humping. Take the pillow in between your legs and lie on your belly. The best way to create friction is to move your thigh. Gravity is going to do its job and put some extra pressure on those areas for more intense experience.

Cowgirl

Cowgirl is another classic position, and it is an absolute favorite for those pillow humpers. Think as if you are riding a horse, and straddle the cushion. Now you know the drill, move your pelvis back and forth. This way, you will be in control.

Sideways Spoon

Lids sideways and then spoon the pillow like you would spoon your partner to get a more comfortable and intimate experience.

Knee Pillow Hump

In this position, you have to keep the pillow between your legs as you lie down, but you can also stand. Use one of your knees to hold the pillows in place, and then press your thighs together to add pressure.

Few Pillow Humping Tips

If you are a newbie or experienced, these tips are going to enhance your pillow-humping experience. This is going to make you a pro humper in no time.

Listen To Erotica

When you are masturbating, mental stimulation plays a great role. Listening to an audio erotica is just the thing you need. This way, you do not have to keep your eyes focused on the screen if you use porn to enhance your experience. 

Take a sexy story; it could be an audio about someone’s hottest sexual fantasy, or it could be a guided session for masturbation that would take your arousal to the next level. This is absolutely going to improve your pillow humping experience.

Try Various Pillows And Covers

The firmness, texture, and size of the cushions matter. They affect the sensations. A feather-filled pillow will give you a different sensation than a pillow filled with gel, memory foam, or microbeads. 

For some people, a body pillow works well. But for you, the firmness of a decorative throw pillow could work. So, it depends on your preference. What works for someone else might not work for you.

You might enjoy the smoothness of a satin-covered pillow or a soft velvet pillow, or it could be a canvas that would give you the appropriate friction that you need. There are various options, so play along until you know what works for you.

Pair Your Pillow With Sex Toys

Well, this is another suggestion that is known to work wonders for some people. Tuck a vibrator inside the pillow. This is going to ramp up the clitoral stimulation for the ladies. Dont worry, gentlemen; there is something you can try as well.

Will pillow grinding, wear a masturbation sleeve, and this is going to enhance the feeling. You can try a vibrating butt plug during your pillow play to get a stronger orgasm.

Hump It Right! Tips On How To Hump A Pillow The Naughty Way!

Hump It Right

Well, I’m not running a sex-ed class here, just writing from my experience. Humping a pillow is not rocket science; anyone can do it. But there are some tips I would like to impart to you from my own experience. 

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1. Pick The Right Pillow

Pillow humping is all about picking the right pillow to hump your brains out. You should never pick a long and hard pillow. (even though a hard one sounds right!😉) Pick a short pillow, that to a soft one. 

Don’t just stick to one pillow; move around; there are better options! *Pun Intended!* Try out a few pillows, then find the pillow with the best stimulation.

2. Get In The Mood

Get In The Mood

You know how you have to be in the right mood to have sex? (Unless you are faking it!!) It is the same as pillow humping; you have to be in the right mood or else say goodbye to an orgasm!! 

To get into the mood, maybe watch a sexy movie, an erotic book, or simply watch porn, to speed up the foreplay. And to ensure that your mood stays on, avoid any interruptions.  

3. Look Hot And Sexy

It is always best to dress up sexy for yourself. Treat yourself and dress up all sexy. For humping a pillow, you don’t have to dress up a lot. Maybe a slinky silk babydoll night suit or just tiny silk underwear. 

And it is perfectly fine if you choose to be fully naked, it would be more stimulating against the pillow if you are fully naked. 

4. Control The Speed Of Humping

Speed Of Humping

Humping pillow can be of different stimulating speeds. However, you have a certain speed that works best for you. But if you ask me, start slow, get into the rhythm, and once you start feeling the tingling, speed up! 

It helps a lot in the process if you moan and make sexual noises during the process. Once you get an orgasm, slow down, and enjoy the feeling. 

5. Hump In A Full Bladder

Hump In A Full Bladder

I don’t know why, but a humping pillow works great when you have a full bladder. Maybe because the full bladder puts added pressure on the body, and that turns on the sexual desires of the body. This helps to get an orgasm faster. 

6. Go For A Second Round

I am sure you won’t get tired only after the first orgasm! Why not go for another round? Trust me; the second orgasm is much more stimulating and thrilling than the first one. 

7. Be Creative

Be Creative

There is always scope to be creative when it comes to pillow humping. Why not try different sex positions and try them out with a pillow? 

While humping, why leave your hands idle? Put them to good use, like caressing your breasts and nipples. For more stimulation, you can also use a vibrator along with a pillow. 

How To Hump A Pillow For Guys!

When it comes to masturbation, guys prefer to use their hands more than pillow humping. But that shouldn’t always be the case; guys can get incredible orgasms using a pillow or even bed humping if you are into that. 

While the most common form of pillow humping for them is by thrusting their penis in between the pillow and the mattress. Although that is not the only way, you can use two pillows pressed against each other or rather by wrapping a pillow around your penis.

Frequently Asked Questions!

I don’t think you would have any more questions regarding this, but if you do, here are some that others asked. 

1. Is Pillow Humping Safe?

Yes, pillow humping is totally safe; you don’t have to worry at all about humping a fucking pillow. But make sure you get a soft fluffy pillow so that you don’t scratch any body parts. 

2. Is Orgasm Possible While Pillow Humping? 

Yes, not just a small orgasm, but a knee-jerking orgasm is possible with pillow humping. It’s just like masturbation; it helps you release all the sexual tension in your body. 

3. Can I Get Stis From Pillow Humping? 

No, technically, it is not possible to catch STIs by pillow humping as you are not touching another person. But there might be a chance you can get STIs if the pillow already had any fluids of a sick person. 

So it is always advised to use a clean pillow to hump on. And if you are a person of that status, then wear clothes while humping. 

Wrapping Up!

To spice up your weekly masturbation sessions, why not try pillow humping? It’s equally stimulating and gives you the best orgasms as a result. Humping pillow makes you understand your own body better. So why not try it out this week? 

But before that, feel free to share your thoughts, past experiences, and even memorable stories (as long as you are comfortable in the comments below.)

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  • “You would be surprised to find out how so many people actually carry such habits well into their adulthood.” No not surprised at all, it’s literally one of the most common forms of masturbation. You think everyone just uses a vibrator? Haha

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