So… um, how to kiss or initiate one with the love of your life?
That’s what you’ve been having trouble with, right?
Well, let’s be honest – there are two different ends of the kissing spectrum.
You can either have an out-of-the-world experience with your partner, who knows “exactly” what you like… or you will have to deal with loads of snobbish tongue actions.
And, trust me, you don’t want to be known as the latter.
Now, here’s the thing. Like me, if you’re way too confident, you probably consider yourself a master of the kissing game. It’s totally fine, though.
Being self-assertive can go a long way when it comes to wooing someone.
Nevertheless, whether you’re a newbie or an outright professional, there’s always something new to learn about how to kiss and be a good kisser.
And, with this article, I’m going to help you progress through the path of being the greatest kisser the world… uh, your partner, has ever been with.
Let’s get going!
15 Kissing Techniques That You Should Try Today!
Before I begin, here’s a friendly reminder for you.
While going through this section, you’ll come across a ton of different kissing ideas, tips, and, of course, techniques. And I’m pretty sure that it’ll help you get the answer to how to be a good kisser too. But here’s the thing.
Don’t try all of them at once!
The idea is to use just one or two of the tactics every time you decide to spend a steamy night with your partner. That way, you’ll always have something else up your sleeve and keep your relationship interesting for a long, long time.
So, are you ready to learn more about how to kiss like a pro? Well, then, let’s get started!
How To Kiss Like A Pro – The Beginning
To make it easier for you to understand, I’ll categorize my’ how to kiss’ guide into three different segments. So, pay close attention to them and build your make-out session, as mentioned!
Tip – 1: A Little Bit Of Teasing Goes A Long Way.
“Just a little to leave them hangin’.”
Hey, it’s not like you’re doing some sort of a business deal with someone here. So, cutting to the chase and laying a wet one on your partner won’t do you any good.
The trick here is to build your way up to the perfect kiss. And teasing your partner a little can give you an ideal head start. But how to initiate a kiss?
Maintaining eye contact while you move slowly to peck his cheeks can be a great way to begin. Let the tension build up a little. Talk to them in a hushed voice. Put your lips closer to theirs and wait for them to make their move.
Did their eyes flicker down your lips?
And, speaking of lips, did you notice them biting theirs?
Well, then, congrats. You are on the right track, my friend!
Tip – 2: Go For A Gentle Peck.
“Being modest can go a long way, sometimes.”
Overeager kisses are downright gross, especially when you’re trying to build up to the perfect moment. Sometimes, your partner might feel like you’re trying to eat their face off.
Such a turn-off, right?
A good, romantic kiss should be natural and relaxed. So, close your eyes as you go near your partner’s lips and give them a little peck. Yes, just a small one – it’ll be enough to make them want more and more from you.
Tip – 3: Slow And Steady Wins The Race.
“Just like the turtle. Or… uh, probably not the right example, but you get the vibe, right?”
A fast and aggressive make-out session is certainly all beers and skittles. However, it doesn’t really work well when you start off on that note.
It’s something you’ll need to work up to – slowly and steadily. So, when you’re starting it off, try to go for a slower rhythm with a sense of tranquility.
Don’t force it.
Breathe slowly, go for a gentler kiss, and tap a rather lighter pressure on their lips. Also, keep your mouth soft and relaxed. After all, a hard pucker isn’t really the most pleasant to kiss.
Tip – 4: The Impeccable Physical Touch.
“Nothing beats ’em up like the bodily warmth.”
Do you want to make your make-out session a little more romantic than it already is? Then, it is time for your hands to show what they are all about.
If you’ve had the perfect peck to start off your journey, try to cup their face and pull your partner towards you slowly. Now, give them a little kiss on their nose before moving down to their lips again. It may not sound too much on paper, but it’s romantic and can take a kissing session to the next level pretty quickly.
Here’s another special “how to kiss” tip for you.
When it comes to giving your partner the “impeccable” physical touch, cupping their cheeks isn’t the only resort that you can try. Besides, holding their waist and pulling them closer can also be an excellent choice, especially if you’re a guy.
And, if you are feeling a little adventurous, you may want to put your hands down a little too. Just make sure to ask your girl about it first. Consent is key here, folks.
Tip – 5: Nibble… But Carefully.
“A stroke of love, if you may.”
To be completely honest with you… having a little bite while kissing is freakin’ hot. And, if it comes with outta nowhere, the nibble becomes even more of a turn-on than a Frenchie.
Now, if you want to make it a little steamier, a little bit of suckling can take the smooch in the stratosphere too. Just make sure that you are not biting too hard. You might get slapped.
How To Kiss Like A Pro – Getting A Little Steamier
Well, at this point, things are probably getting a little too hot to handle for you two. So, now, we’ll go a little deeper down the rabbit hole and offer some next-level “how to kiss” tips here.
Tip – 6: Try Out Frenchies… But A Little Slowly.
“It’s gettin’ too hot here.”
So, at this point, I’m pretty sure you’ve learned all about the basics at this point. So, now, it’s time for you to advance a little and try the most sought-after French kiss.
But what is it, really?
Well, it’s a kiss – but, this time, you have to go a little beyond the boundary of lips and use the tongues. Your tongue is an extremely sexy instrument, after all. Thus, the better you use it, the steamier the make-out session will become.
Here are some French kissing tips that might be helpful for you.
- Try not to get too tensed up. Instead, focus on relaxing your facial muscles and keep the lips open and smooth. Allow your partner to sense your breath, too – it’s important.
- Caress and suck on their lips. And, while you are at it, try to notice the sensations in their lips and how they are varying from lower to upper lips.
- Start working on that tongue. Start off by using the soft tip of your tongue and try to make sexy swirls around theirs. Think of it like you are massaging their tongue.
Tip – 7: Don’t Get Too Engrossed And Initiate The TMT.
“Put a break on your overeagerness.”
French kissing can get extremely sound and arousing after a while. And it might feel a little tempting to do all the work with your tongue only. However, I’ll ask you to refrain a bit here.
No matter how intimate you guys are getting, TMT (too much tongue) can make it too wet or sloppy. That’d ruin the mood for both of you. So, try to alternate between the techniques.
Tip – 8: Show Your Wanderlust A Little.
“In the world of homesicks, be a Columbus.”
Kissing on their lips can get a bit prosaic after a while. Thus, try to break away from their lips every once in a while and plant soft kisses along their shoulders, neck, and jawline. Then, go ahead and bite their earlobes mildly before returning to their lips again.
Wandering a little bit here and there while kissing is pretty fun if you do it correctly. And it will also help you learn which zones are the “ah-mazing” ones for your partner. It’s critical to know too. After all, we’re different and enjoy things that are more “specific” to ourselves.
Tip – 9: Switch Your Rhythm Every Now And Then.
“Another ‘how to kiss’ quintessential.”
If you’re following the same rhythm without tilting your head once in a while, your make-out session will get boring after a while. So, yes, tilt your head a little while kissing, try to switch sides, and DON’T FORGET to change your rhythm.
For example, if you two are just beginning, try to keep things as slow and steady as possible. It’ll certainly arise a sense of curious sensuality within your man’s heart. In most cases, they will take the lead of the rhythm, and all you need to do is follow them.
But, if you are dating a shy guy, it may take a while for them to get out of their shell. Hence, the “fun” part will depend on how you progress. Just show them that you are enjoying the session, and they’ll come around. I’m sure of it.
Tip – 10: Breaks Are Much More Important Than You Think.
“Breathe a little. No, seriously!”
Honestly, it’s really easy to get wrapped around at the moment and not focus on your bodily requirements. However, you cannot afford to do it. If you don’t breathe once in a while, you may feel a little dizzier than usual. So, take a break every now and then.
… Yeah, I know what you are thinking.
Taking a break during an intense moment might feel a bit weird, right? The risk of the other person getting turned off is there, too, no? Well, yes. It might. But you can easily take care of these awkward moments by abiding by these tips –
- Stop and stare into their eyes while having a smirk on your face. It works like magic!
- Nudge your nose into his and go for an Eskimo kiss. It’s playful and romantic.
- Kiss on their forehead. Yes, boys appreciate them too!
Side Note: A Secret About The Whiskers.
Smooching someone with a beard can feel different than someone with a smoother face. And, if you were wondering, yes, it’s applicable for someone with stubble too.
I mean, getting in contact with facial hair is completely harmless. But, the stubble can scratch against your cheeks and chin while you are having an intense moment together.
But don’t let that ruin your moment, though. If you think that the beard feels too painful, ask your partner to kiss somewhere else.
However, if you’re more of a “what’s-in-it-for-a-little-bit-of-pain,” person, I’ll suggest using a little vaseline or moisturizer on your cheeks afterward.
How To Kiss Like A Pro – It’s On Fayah!
So, you have mastered frenching, taking care of the rhythm, and whatnot, right? Well, then, it is time for you to take your makeup sesh to the next level (IYKWIM).
Let’s see what I have in store for you.
Tip – 11: Getting A Little Bit Of Handsy Is Hot!
“Let your hands do the charm.”
I mean, cupping your partner’s face while kissing is certainly romantic. And, honestly, I’m all in for it, too. However, just don’t get stagnant while you are in motion.
Do something to make him want you like he’s never done before. Most guys love it when their partner runs their fingers through their hair and pulls them mildly.
In some cases, grasping their face instead of cupping (it’s cute, but you’re not in the position of being “cute” anymore) can be great too.
Wait, what did you say? It doesn’t sound like the hottest “how to kiss” tip for you? Well, then check out the next one and tell me about it.
Tip – 12: Soft Moans Can Do The Trick Too!
“Doesn’t matter if it’s the girls or guys kissing – it’s all the same.”
Moaning softly at times can trigger sexual desire within your partner and prompt him to want to do something more than what’s happening. And, if your timing is impeccable, you might find yourself in bed before you can say his name.
But beware! When it comes to moaning, there’s only a thin line separating the “turn on” and “turn off” moment. So, you have to be very careful about what you are trying to do. Just don’t be too loud, for starters. Do it as only he can hear you, nothing else.
Also, don’t do it too frequently when you are just beginning. Instead, do it when you are sure that the guy is aroused and wants to take it to the next level. The soft moans will give him the “push” to take the lead and do it all by himself. It’s a sly trick, I know. But hey, it works!
Tip – 13: Keep It Tender Yet Passionate.
“Strike the right balance.”
Even though you have arrived at the end of your make-out sesh, I’ll still not ask YOU to go all out and get too passionate. Instead, focus on keeping it as cool and tender as possible. It will show that you are not here just to have a physical relationship with him.
Instead, they’ll feel love and care whenever you touch their lips. And, truth be told, men do love that more than anything.
Tip – 14: Press Him Against The Wall Or Let Him Do It!
“Not too hard, though.”
Kissing while having your back against the wall is definitely sexy, and men adore it.
So, if you’re the one taking the lead in the session, try to press him against the nearest wall and combine it with soft moans and Frenchies.
If he’s breathing heavily, you’re almost there!
Tip – 15: It’s Time!
“Time to take out the key!”
Are both of your shirts (and more!) coming off already? Then, it’s time for you to trail the person’s body with nibbles and kisses as you focus elsewhere other than their mouth.
It’ll offer a sense of transition regarding what’s about to go down next. And I’m pretty sure you know what I mean. So, take charge and make your man do what you want them to do.
It’s all in your own hands now!
Ready To Make Your Relationship A Little Steamier?
So, that’ll be all for my “how to kiss” guide today.
I hope I was able to make you a little enlightened about how you should go on and make your kissing session a bit spicier. However, it’s all in the experience, you know.
Thus, if you feel like I have missed out on something or simply want to share your thoughts, I would suggest you put them in the comment section. I would love to know what you think.
And a new blog on “how to be a good kisser” is coming soon on this blog too. So, check our blog as often as you can!
Thanks for reading!
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